Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Reina-isms & Quilts

"Remember, babies sleep in cars...Remember, babies cry sometimes." These are two phrases Reina has told Chris and I on an occasion or two.  I'm not sure where she got them from.  The latter I'm thinking I may have mentioned when preparing her for a baby sister.  I'm not sure where she came up with the former.   Either way, Reina is still coping pretty well considering she is no longer the center of attention. I actually ran upstairs this morning to put the laundry in the dryer....when I came back downstairs, Reina was attending to Kaiya in her bouncy chair - gently bouncing Kaiya, as I had asked Reina to do.  So sweet.  I haven't seen any signs of anger or jealousy towards Kaiya (knock on wood) and aside from being a bit more whiney than normal, I would say she has made the transition seamlessly.  But...I think I've already talked about this.

Kaiya or Reina?
Kaiya or Reina?

What I have failed to mention in a while is the progress of Reina's quilt. Its DONE!!! And it is amazing.  It came from Romeni (who actually quilted and put on the finishing touches) just in time for our "cold" whether, and has been on Reina's bed since it arrived in the mail last week.  We even went through her baby books last night and talked about all the clothes that were in the pictures and the quilt.  Pretty cool.  Ironically enough, the same day my quilt arrived, I received a surprise package from my best-friend in elementary school, Jessica Halley.  She made two baby quilts for both Reina and Kaiya. WOW.  And Reina's was a collection of fabrics from our young years together. It was VERY sweet and thoughtful. She also sent two Breyer horses, toys that Jessica and I treasured more than I can ever explain.  I fear that Reina doesn't appreciate them as much as I do, but perhaps with time she'll worship these horses as Jess and I did.




The count down has been going for a while now, but aside from the obvious Christmas nearing, Grandma and Halil will be here in a week.  Shortly after that Granddaddy and Romeni will be here...and the visits couldn't come fast enough, as I am lonely at home alone (even though Kaiya is so sweet).



Reina will turn three while Grandaddy and Romeni are here and we'll have her party that weekend - guess I better figure out what we're going to do for that!  Wish EVERYONE who reads this blog can come...that's all I want for Christmas (oh, and for Kaiya to sleep through the night!).  

Friday, December 2, 2011

Many, Many Thanks

Reina's little sister, Kaiya Elizabeth arrived Thanks-giving morning, two days after her due date and one day before her Aunt Liz's birthday.  As soon as she was here, Chris' first comment was, "she's big." And she was.  She was two pounds heavier than Reina, at 8lbs 9oz and an inch longer, 21".  Kaiya had a bit of jaundice and had to return to the hospital in her first week of life 3 times for a bili check (several heal pricks) as well as spend the night on a take-home ultra-violet light bed. So far Kaiya has been more mellow than Reina baby, sleeping in three hour stretches at night, which has been blissful.





Reina met Kaiya at the hospital when Kaiya was only a few hours old and was very excited to hold her. Reina also loved going home with Kaiya, right next to her in the car.  She has transitioned very well and loves her little sister so much.  However, Reina did come to the realization two nights ago that Kaiya, Mommy and Daddy all got to sleep in the same room.  She showed up one night after we thought she was asleep, blanket in hand, and said, "I'm going to sleep in your bed tonight."  We negotiated another book in bed with Mom, and that seemed to appease her.

In addition to being thankful for the delivery of a healthy baby girl on Thanks-giving I have to mention how thankful I am for all of my friends.  Living WAY over here makes times like these difficult, when you can't depend on family.  So, special thanks to Auntie Karen and Jane, and Barbara we've got a freezer full of meals.  I know there are several more who have offered for next week, and I am so happy to not only NOT have to worry about cooking or shopping, but getting to eat some new good food!  Our family has also been very supportive, its just a bit more difficult since there a bit further away.  Thanks to Skype, Grandpa and Uncle Paul have met Kaiya, and hopefully there will be more introductions this weekend.

In a bit of random news, Reina has started a new activity, that reminds me a LOT of myself (I probably started it).  Its called the "guessing game, guessing game," yes, it always comes in twos, and we usually have requests for it while we're in the car. Either Chris or I are to think of something, give Reina clues, and then she guesses what it is: "I'm thinking of a vehicle that flies in the air and is loud sometimes..." When its Reina's turn (and we guess), it usually starts with, "I'm thinking of a bus, that is yellow, and has a lot of kids in it." As you can see, she tells us what she is thinking, but she still gets excited when we tell her we know what it is.  Silly girl.

Mom and Halil are coming to visit December 20th, and we all can't wait (especially since I'll have spent the previous two weeks alone with Kaiya).  And Reina knows that when they are here Christmas is soon.  She is VERY excited about Christmas and Santa Claus.  As the matter of fact, I mentioned to her that we could put up the tree today, but we had to wait until Daddy got up to carry it downstairs.  So, about an hour later (and I had since forgotten this conversation), Chris comes downstairs, and Reina didn't waste a minute requesting the tree brought down.  We'll get the Xmas music going this afternoon and put up the decorations and put some presents under the tree (which she was very concerned about).

Kaiya goes in for her two week check up next week (12/7), so I hope to report then.


Saturday, November 5, 2011

Trick or Treating & Sesame Street

Ako (owl), Rana (princess), Reina (Fairy)
On the 31st, we stayed up a bit later so that Reina, Rana, and Ako could go trick-or-treating.  They loved it.  We didn't brave on base, mainly b/c Chris and I didn't want to deal with the massive amounts of people signing on Japanese guests for trick-or-treating.  So, instead we went to Sunabe, which, if you haven't been to Okinawa recently (or ever) there is quite a few Americans squashed into one area. While the number of people handing out candy wasn't very substantial, there were tons of Japanese kids walking around trick-or-treating, and we still made out with plenty of candy.  Reina was by far the cutest trick-or-treater ever...I'll post the pics so you can see yourself.
Passing out candy at the Stevens' after we were all done






This friday Sesame Street visited Kadena.  The USO flew them over to put on a show about deployment and moving.  We scored some tickets from a friend, so that all three of us could go meet the Sesame Street gang.  Their message wasn't exactly appropriate for Reina's age nor the topic, but she enjoyed all of the singing and dancing.  Elmo was her favorite.  She was very concerned as to why Big Bird didn't make it, so we told her he couldn't fit on the plane b/c he was too big and that it was too far for him to fly.  She seemed more or less ok with that.

Reina's Japanese is coming along great.  She uses quite a few phrases with us, and I can only assume that she uses it more at school.  Things like, "ma-te" [wait], and "kore nani?" [what is this] for example. She even busted out in Japanese on her own with Obaa-chan, which is especially interesting since Kuniko tends to speak to her in English. Its like Reina knew Obaa-chan was Japanese.
Enjoying the Sesame Show!

Kaiya should be here soon.  I'm secretly hoping for 11/11/11, because that would be a cool birthday.  But that would also be a week early, and planning wise, its not a great time for my AP Bio class..but what can you do!?  I'm very uncomfortable, at plus 40lbs, and ready to be done.  I know that after Kaiya is here, I will STILL be tired but at least that will mean the beginning of re-gaining control of my body!  I have another appointment this Wednesday, which will put me at 38weeks and 2 days.